“When asked to describe the width of his love, he stretched one hand to the right and the other to the left and had them nailed in that position so you would know he died loving you.” – Max Lucado

What comes to mind when you hear the word kind? Did you visualize a picture of a person serving the homeless a meal at a soup kitchen on a cold winter day? Or a mother hugging her toddler and dusting off his scraped knee after he took a tumble on his bicycle?

Perhaps you are envisioning a modern day good Samaritan who recently stopped on the freeway to help you fix a flat tire. I had an opportunity once of briefly watching a gentleman assist an elderly lady find her car in a parking lot.

She had gone shopping and bless her heart, completely forgotten where she had parked her car. While others watched her wandering around the parking lot, this man was willing to stop what he was doing and help her find the vehicle. What an act of kindness!

Kindness is being willing to assist others without any thought to my own personal benefit or reward.

It is easy to help someone who has the potential of repaying you back for your services. Or someone that would give your ego a major boost just by knowing you had done them a favor.

Consider the unlikely possibility of driving down the road and discovering that Catherine Zeta-Jones had a flat tire and was stranded on the side of the road. Quite possibly you would not be able to get near her car because of the hoards of people desperate for a glimpse, an autograph, or a tiny piece of her shredded tire as memorabilia. Most likely not one of those people would have stopped out of true kindness—many stopped because of what they would have gotten out of it.

Now as extreme as this analogy is, think about the last time you helped someone without any ulterior motives. Ask yourself deep down in your heart about what makes you tick. Why do you do the things you do?

Look for someone today whom you can help unconditionally and without any thought of gain. Maybe go visit an elderly person in a nursing home. Volunteer to feed the homeless at a soup kitchen. Make a donation to a nonprofit ministry without asking for a tax writeoff.

What better way can you show genuine kindness than by serving His children in ways that they could never repay you?

This article is part of the “Love Lessons from 1 Corinthians 13″ series. You can view the introduction to the series here.